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almost a mother

you make me

want to be

pro-life

because women

like you

cannot be trusted

with a choice.

 

anguished, i listen,

(mouth agape)

as you illustrate

your experience -

the mere expulsion

of blood and tissue -

like you are

reporting

the weather.

 

sure is hot today.

i hope

tomorrow

will be better…

 

i know my

revulsion stems

in part from

bitter jealousy -

that what you do

with your body

has nothing to do

with me.

 

28 July 2010

  but i can’t help

but draw

a shaky parallel

between the

three

you decided

against and the

three

i prayed for.

 

each time

waiting

(eyes closed),

hoping for the

+    sign

to appear.

every time

disappointed,

as i watched

my savings

disappear.

 

today, i am

almost a mother

the same way that

i am almost thin -

you see,

i am not.

i watch helplessly,

searching my heart for a

way to comfort your

daughter while she

screams.

 

She doesn’t understand

why the doctor

must change the

bandages on her

hands that veil

the burns -

evidence

that you taught her

once and for all

not

to touch

the stove.

 

so I close my eyes

momentarily,

and remember

my time as a student.

it was my responsibility

to supervise as you

held your newborn child -

born addicted.

you,  glaring at me like

it was my fault that

the powers that be

didn’t believe

your story

about the “contact high”

you got from the air

how you couldn’t believe

it was in your baby’s system

how you had

no idea

how it got there.

 

so I try not to succumb

to the blues,

but my sentiment

breaks free of its

capricious cage

as I watch

the evening news.

 

your son

died

in a hot car

while you threw back

a few beers

in the local bar.

 

your son

died

in  a hot car

while you threw back

a few beers

in the local bar.

 

it’s worth repeating.

 

so I continue

to foster

babies I cannot keep,

children so broken

that I cannot

hold them together;

souls so lost

that I can only hope

to one day reach them.

 

on second thought…

i’m glad you were

afforded the choice,

because there are only

so many

almost mothers

out there

to give your children

a

voice.

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